The Uncanny Valley of Internet Marketing
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That internet marketing has a steep learning curve is not a position with which many people would argue. To a novice, the range of skills that are needed to run a successful online business can appear incredibly daunting.
So why is it that so many who attempt to break into this field, give up; not near the beginning of their journey when the mountain of knowledge that must be climbed seems insurmountable, but months or even years later when their abilities and experience in internet marketing has never been greater?
Could it be, that the internet marketing niche has its very own “Uncanny Valley”?
If you’re not familiar with the term, the Uncanny Valley is
a term that is used to explain the eerie and revolting nature of realistic looking, humanoid robots.
Uh-oh! Tenuous link alert? No, really, bear with me.
The theory goes that as humanoid robots become more detailed and life-like, their resemblance to humans comes ever closer. But, at a certain point in the progression, only a little way before becoming indistinguishable from the real thing, the humanoid robot’s resemblance to a living, breathing human, plummets.
At this point, the robot appears LESS human and, worse, becomes something creepy, unnatural and… well… uncanny.
If you then continue to make the robot appear MORE human, it isn’t long before the sinister quality fades away and it begins to appear more lifelike. If we were to continue on this course, on outward appearances at least, it would eventually be impossible to tell it apart from the real thing.
The reason this phenomenon is called the Uncanny Valley is clear once you plot it on a graph comparing how many life-like qualities a robot has, against our emotional reaction to it.

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What is unusual about this graph is that, once the resemblance has plunged into the nightmarish depths of a Doctor Who episode, shortly afterwards, the progression recovers. The result is a narrow, but deep valley (hence the name).
Usually when something is made more detailed, or improved, its effectiveness at accomplishing its purpose increases. The rate of increase may vary, but to improve something and, at some point, start to see it become LESS effective, is hard to comprehend.
For example, if you make a painting of a cat more detailed and more accurate, it increasingly resembles its subject. It doesn’t, at some point, suddenly start looking like an alien.
If you constantly increase the amount you eat, you will steadily increase in size. There isn’t a point on the scale, where overeating suddenly causes drastic weight loss.
If you exercise and train regularly, your stamina will improve accordingly. There’s no drop-off point where exercising suddenly makes you become weak and unfit.
The Uncanny Valley effect, is most definitely not a common event.
So does this mean that the Uncanny Valley is unique to robotics? I doubt it. And it was in trying to come up with other examples, that I - inevitably - began thinking about internet marketing.
When we start out, we know virtually nothing, and we’re aware of the fact. As our knowledge and experience grows, our comprehension increases and our abilities improve. After a time, we become familiar with so many different aspects of internet marketing and their role in online business, that we become confident and more adventurous.
Surely the goal of early retirement is only a few more points on the graph away.
But this is often the point where people get stuck. Despite progress appearing to be inevitable, the success of the business begins to level off. It can remain at this point for some time, but not indefinitely.
Sometimes the remaining pieces slot into place and the success of the business resumes its upward course. But more often that not, the person will work harder and harder and attempt more and more different approaches, until things become unmanageable.
And that is the point where I believe the Uncanny Valley of internet marketing begins. Profitability starts to taper off and, unless something changes, the plunge continues.

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The key difference with this graph is that once someone reaches the bottom of the uncanny valley, it ISN’T a given that they will come out of the other side.
The contrast between the earlier success - resulting in excitement and euphoria - and the current struggle to keep going, is so stark that many people will just give up and assume they’re not cut out for the life of an entrepreneur.
Maybe, they’re right. Because some refuse to give up and seem destined to reside in this hole forever. But, happily, many do climb up the other side and gain the satisfaction of watching their business grow, and grow, and grow…
If you agree that this phenomenon exists, then it seems sensible to consider why it occurs and how it can be conquered. But, in reality, there probably isn’t a single, fundamental answer to the question.
Ask ten successful internet marketer’s what the difference is between the successful online business owners and those that constantly struggle to keep their head above water, and you’ll probably get ten different answers.
And all of them could be correct.
If you don’t mind me sharing my opinion (and it’s my blog so I guess I’m going to either way - lol)…
Some time ago, Rich Schefren crystalised one of the key difficulties that online business owners face, by creating an in-depth list of everything that needs to be put into place. When viewed in these terms, the challenge seems overwhelming.
I think there’s something to that, but I’m more inclined to see this as a case of trees and wood. As in not being able to see one for the other.
Emails, forums, videos, eBooks and seminars, teach us so much about so much, that standing back and seeing the big picture becomes harder the MORE you learn and the MORE experience you gain.
It can reach the point where you’d need to stand so far back to see the whole, you would be in danger of losing your business over the horizon.
Put another way, what good does it do to have a strong grasp of a hundred different elements of internet marketing, if you’ve no idea how to put them all together?
It would be a little bit like getting a jigsaw puzzle and feeling good because you managed to take all the pieces out of the box and turn them the right side up. It’s a good start, but you’re nowhere until those pieces start to fit together.
Most info-products focus on very specific areas of internet marketing, and there’s nothing wrong with that. But at some point, you need to learn how to put all these different skills into a logical sequence and then carry them out correctly.
Internet seminars are a good place to start with this. Listening to ONE person, lecture about how their business works, can be very eye-opening. But the real gain here is talking to individuals privately, and learning how their business REALLY functions.
Even better, is learning how they structured their business to get it to where it is today. You may hear about one or two key decisions, that you’ve never before considered. A satisfying “Aha” moment can soon follow.
For me? Well, lately I’m becoming increasingly convinced that outsourcing IS the silver bullet.
In the context of the above, outsourcing aspects of your business allows you to take away some of those trees and get a clearer perspective again of where your business is, and where it’s going. Time is freed up to spend on worthwhile development, as opposed to just trying to keep things moving.
Take a look at your business honestly, particularly taking into account what’s happened over the last couple of years. Is your business REALLY going in the direction you want it to be?
If not, and you’re just keeping your head down and working harder, this is a sure indication that you’re plunging head-first down the Uncanny Valley.
If you want to climb out of it, you’re going to have to get sufficient perspective to see what’s holding you back. And then the guts to do what must me done.
But that’s just one point of view. If you want to know how this approach is working out for me, then I suggest you watch the space.
In the meanwhile… tell me your point of view.
Why do you think the Uncanny Valley of Internet Marketing exists, and what must me done to climb out of it? Post your comments below.

August 26th, 2008 at 5:06 pm
New thoughts. But I really need to read it again to understand all the implications of the Uncanny Valley.
Sri
August 26th, 2008 at 5:20 pm
For my pennies worth.
Does the uncanny valley really exist? It probably does appear to exist…very Matrix like (I refer to the film and not Rich Schefren’s Matrix).
There is a phenomenon called the lesson three setback. The idea is that as we learn something we keep improving our skill but only up to a point. There’s a setback or at least a plateau (not quite a valley I guess).
I have noticed that we are at our worst when looking at ourselves. Gosh can we really observe ourselves looking at ourselves?
It’s far easier to look at someone else and see with absolute clarity what needs to be done and where to focus attention to get the best outcome.
My business consulting arm is called thedetailworks which you can find by sticking a .com after it (a bit cheeky I know). It is based on the premise that small details can have a massive effect but …. the problem is that we are pretty rubbish at identifying and seeing our own woods and trees.
I suspect that’s why we need mastermind groups, people who have been there before and who can provide the right degree of clarity and insight.
So, yes, I think the Uncanny Valley does exist and one possible way to climb out is to create mastermind groups or talk to someone really clever who has been there and done it.
Coaching programme anyone:-)
Cheers
Steve
August 26th, 2008 at 5:28 pm
Great comment Steve - thank you.
I have no problem with anyone posting their own links in their comments, as long as they post something worthwhile as well (and you’ve done that in spades).
I guess plateaus are common, but I’ve definitely had at least one valley in the last few years. Too many ideas in too short a space of time led to over-complicating things and trying to develop too much at once.
It meant, over-spending on development, without enough additional funds coming in as a result, leading to a drop in income.
Went back to basics and climbed out of it, but I’d guess I’m not the first or the last to fall into that trap.
August 26th, 2008 at 8:25 pm
Wowo…. the post and comments seem very deep….lol
As for your valley and then the relationship to outsourcing - I’m reminded of a term called -
“The Peter Principle”
Where each person is always promoted to their own level of Incompetence!
Therefore - when working for ourselves… if we reach that level - we are surely in your valley…
And that would probably be a good time to outsource just to find competent people to get what we need done happening!
A prime example occurs in my own business where I just couldn’t get my head around scripts….
I registered a domain and had the idea and outline of my mebership site a year before I actually had it built…
I was wading around in the valley for 8 or 9 months trying to acheive something I was totally incompetent at… and it wasn’t until I bit the bullet and outsourced the script install and other techie parts - that the site was finally built and now has many active members enjoying the benefits I had visualised the year prior!
So however you want to call it - outsourcing is a great thing….. but can it be successfully acheived without first having those initial successes, and then sliding down into the valley???
Regards
Randy
http://www.RandolfSmith.com
August 27th, 2008 at 1:41 am
I no nothing about promoting on the internet. The language of selling on the net is like reading Greek.
August 27th, 2008 at 10:25 am
2 books that will help with this:
The Dip - Seth Godin. This covers this exact topic of people giving up at the point before being successful
4 Hour Work Week - Timothy Ferris. This goes into detail of how to overcome the “ahh, too much to do all by myself” syndrome.
August 27th, 2008 at 10:30 am
I can definitely see what you are talking about. I haven’t even really got started yet. Still learning!
Even in the beginning there is so much infomation out there to get a hold of it starts to become daunting. I’ve even considered getting a speed reading course to help with all the information I keep getting. It’s like wadding through a vault with A4 size sheets of info up to your knees and not knowing wich one to pick up and read and wich to leave on the floor. I’m a sucker for wanting to digest it all but it can serioulsy bog you down.
Referals already seem to be the major part of the business as I know we are no longer in the infomation age but referal age. With too much infromation out there it is easier to go on a referal from somebody you think you can trust.
This is already starting to come into play even in my infant stage of learning. It was a distingueshed Doctor from New York (retired) that thought quite highly of you David, that enabled me to find out about the Nettle.
Anyway, as I have established myself as not having much experience in Internet Marketing I can relate my own expereinence to when I started to play golf as a teenager.
Without any lessons I had started out poorly as expected, no natural to put it mildy. Thoughout the summer I had improved quite a lot and was getting happy with myself. Each game improved slightly and then I hit somthing and my games just didn’t get any better. With tennage angst, fustration soon built up over the weeks and my game started to take a nose dive.
It was this leveling out in my game (the plateau) where I should have gone and sought out lessons with a pro in order to avoid the valley.
I think what everybody here is trying to say is when productivity or sales start to drop off it is time to revaluate what your doing. The unfortuante thing is that a lot us will come up with same conclusion, and that is to work harder. This in the end will invarably blind you further to what really could actually be the problem. It is this stepping back and looking at the situation from a different angle or from a different set of eyes that can be the key. Don’t be afraid to outsource or even bring in a coach or mentor.
Rember were all being told to work smarter in this busines not harder!
Best Regards,
Wade McCleary
August 27th, 2008 at 10:56 am
Or to put it another way:
NEVER, EVER GIVE UP!!
All the very best, Allen
September 1st, 2008 at 8:31 pm
Sorry for not commenting again sooner - some fantastic stuff in here!
Randy - I’ve read about The Peter Principle before, it’s amusing but very true. It never occurred to me that a version of this phenomenon could occur with someone who is self-employed, but it makes sense.
A lot of self-employed people do something they’re could at, but struggle when they try and do the marketing, or the accounting, etc for themselves.
Brings us back to outsourcing again.
Duncan - I love the Four Hour Work Week. Life altering. I’ve not heard of “The Dip”, but I’ll definitely be checking it out. Thanks for the recommendation.
Wade - following on from what you were saying about trying to beat the dip by working harder; you reminded me of a lesson I learned from Chris Cardell. If you need profits in a hurry, think back to what you did during the first few months of your business when you needed new clients quickly to get off the ground.
Chances are, whatever you did then would still work, but you probably stopped doing it a while ago.